You are 10 times better looking than you think you are. Don’t let anyone alter your perception of yourself. You are perfect just the way you are.
If you don’t have the confidence, fake it! It will become real in time.
Don’t be afraid to try new things. If you never try you will never know.
Education IS your number one tool to successful living. Don’t stop learning.
The first person you love will probably break your heart, but there will be others even better than the first. Though it may seem that your world is ending, it is only just the beginning or things to come. This holds true for every heartbreak, if it is ending it was never meant to last and no matter what you do it won’t.
High school parties are nothing special and being popular is not important in the real world. Being homecoming queen or having the most friends is not going to matter as soon as you enter the real world. Focus on study, and keep close a few true friends instead of many false ones.
Sex is not all it’s cracked out to be. Share it for love, not lust. Enjoy the pleasure with passion, not for comfort or curiosity.
You can’t change other people, and trying is a waste of time. You can only control yourself, if others do things you disapprove of control your reaction, or situation not theirs. You will only fuel their fire and tire yourself out.
Every person who enters your life has something to teach you, take the time to listen and learn. People come into your life for a reason, even negative people. If someone is not good for you it is best to discover that lesson quickly and move on.
Yelling ALWAYS makes things worse. If you are screaming you are going to get nothing but a sore throat.
What others think of you is irrelevant. All that matters is that what you are doing makes YOU happy, seriously…this is life changing advice.
No one knows everything. Though you may think they do, they don’t. Just because someone is talented at many things does not mean they are great at everything. Follow what you know and simply learn what you can.
Every person has a story, don’t judge who they are based on how the appear. Just because a person is suffering now does not mean they always were, life takes us many places and we cross many paths. If you can help do, but don’t judge every human has a soul, they live, breathe, and hurt just like you.
Anger is weakness, violence even more so. Again you can only control yourself.
Those who complain the most accomplish the least. Don’t complain about it just do it, the more time you send avoiding something the longer it takes to do it. You will have to do many things you don’t like to do, it is best to get them out of the way and move on quickly.
Debt devours you. Keep on top of debt or it will swallow you whole.
Be who you are, and say what you feel. Because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind!
Anyone can stay in a safe, comfortable situation; the key to living is to take risks. If it feels easy, it is too easy; you must constantly challenge yourself if you want to grow.
People will put you down because they dislike themselves. If someone is mean to you it is simply a reflection of how they view themselves. Have compassion first, not anger, pity the soul who can not find happiness like you.
If you are not happy alone, you will never be happy with another. You must make yourself happy, no one else can do it for you, and the sad truth is they won’t even try.
Follow you “gut” it will never lead you astray. Your head may cause you to consider, your heart may lead you into trouble, but your gut will always tell you when something is wrong or right. Listen to it carefully.
The only thing worse than having no friends, is having too many that aren’t really friends.
Swearing only makes you sound dumb. It is not “cool” and it is a bad habit to break, avoid it!
Words are powerful, use them with care. One cruel remark can scar for a lifetime.
Problems always seem bigger than they are.
Nothing ever goes as planned. Learn to live in the moment and you will be adaptable to any situation. Stressing over a change is only going to hurt you.
Sometimes you have to let go of people in your life, even when you don’t want to. If someone causes you pain, or makes you cry. It may hurt to let them go, but it will hurt less than letting them stay.
The few possessions you have, the more they do for you. Quality over quantity is always the best choice.
You can never change the past, but you can easily change the future. Live for NOW, dwelling on the past and living with regrets is an easy way to torture yourself. Focus on the future and change that instead.
The ability to be happy is nothing more than a simple choice to be happy. Happiness is not a situation; it is a state of mind. Choose it and it’s yours.
Always follow your dreams. No matter how unattainable they may seem every dream is achievable, make the choice to try and you will succeed. Don’t let others opinions become your reality
Smile and laugh as much as you can. Life is too short to be miserable.
Life is not fair, but it is good.
Always ask yourself “in a year will this matter?” Chances are if it’s a problem it won’t, if it’s an opportunity it will.
Always remember to be thankful for what you have. Envy of others is a waste of time; you already have everything you need.
A person who is rude to a waiter is not a good person. Watch closely to those around you, little signs speak loud words.
Make mistakes. Making mistakes is the only way to learn, make them, take the lesson, and move on.
Always ask questions. Learn, learn, learn……learn!
Remember that you only live once. What seems important right now will probably not matter down the road. Gossip will kill your soul and other people can not make you happy. Live the life you want and enjoy it to the fullest.
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